Rarrrhhhh! Rarrh??

I'm not sure cougars even make that kind of noise, but it's on my mind today. I went out with someone--David-- two nights ago that was born the year I entered college...the year I ENTERED college....you get where I'm going with this, yes?

First of all, the word cougar and all its negative insinuations is vile. I emailed Courteney Cox telling her she should be ashamed to be in a show promoting the word, but I'm sort of doubting she really took it to heart or that she even saw it.

Information you need to complete the scenario:

1. We met when we both looked at the nastiest apartment in Brooklyn. Dis. Gust. Ing. For reals.
2. I had just worked out. Let's just say I wasn't at my best.
3. I was with a male neighbor and David got my email address...to share a website on apartment openings. In hindsight, this was a bit forward as I was with a boy. A day later he requested to be my very best friend on FB, and 2 weeks later I decided "why not" and accepted.
4. He's a really good looking, olive skinned, muscular, dark haired (lots of it) nice young boy who happens to be an excellent pool player and kisser, but I digress. He's also a bartender/actor/writer/producer. I am a day-glo white, somewhat muscular, mostly brown haired (all brown haired when I've been to that fancy salon on 82nd St), nice youngish girl who happens to be an awful pool player (I have tournament stats to prove it) and a rather good kisser...or so I've been told. But who really knows about that? Everyone thinks they're a good kisser--all depends on the 2 people kissing in my humble opinion.

What am I to do with this situation? Besides owing him a nice dinner and some better billiards skills...what do I do? I've never been a person to date for sex only or for fun. I like fun but not in my relationships *dripping sarcasm*. I had one one night stand--the first one doesn't count as I knew him from high school and we ended up dating for 3 months.  I can't even get a one night stand down correctly. On the other hand, I could use some real honest to goodness passionate sex.

Points to ponder.